I think this is a pretty good one to start the year with. It’s simple (unless you like it complicated), it’s free – most of the time and it is good for you. So if you are starting the new year with the intent of getting healthy, losing weight and generally being more awesome, then finding the time for more sex might help you out with that.
If you have been with your partner a long time, have small children or are in a routine that has somehow manage to block the romance in the bedroom then use the New Year and a weekend to rekindle, relight (like Take That) and revel in some serious sex time. If it has been a while, and you need to get back into the swing of feeling sultry and sexy again, then try some female pheromones so you don’t even need to say you’re in the mood – the pheromones will do all the hard work for you!
I’m not going to lie we all know that sometimes sex is approximately 5 and a half minutes long and be brilliant, equally it can be hours long and leave you a little bored in the end. So it really is more about doing what is right for you – whatever that may be.
Here is a short list of reasons to get some sex. (Oh, what a lovely way to have put it).
You get a healthy glow. Having sex gives you glorious glowing skin due to a release of wonderful (happy) hormones and increasing blood circulation. This also helps you on your way to a good hair day! Win!
Good exercise. This only works if you do it for more than half an hour really, but if you are trying to start a new healthy year and having a bit more activity in your life then this might be for you. If you want to work out how many calories you can burn in a quick ten minute sessions then use this – http://www.sexcalculator.co.uk/ Why not work a half an hour session in three times a week!
Helps keep you emotionally and physically close, I think this one is actually really important. I know that some people say ‘It’s not the most important thing’, ‘Sex doesn’t really matter’. I am willing to say that if your partner was having sex with someone else, it would suddenly matter. When you are having sex with your partner, it is with someone (in most cases) you trust implicitly, have been in love with for a while, find mentally stimulating, and physically attractive. I don’t think being physically attracted to someone and sexually attracted are necessarily the same thing so in order to fulfill that tall order of needs you both have why not throw in a really good session every now and then?
Orgasm, I was totes going to write a big list of why these are amazing but really I think the word is enough. Go and have a great orgasm.
It’s free. For thrifty folk, looking for ‘Things to do at the weekend that are free’ or ‘Fun things to do for free in my local area’ on Google, why not just hunker down for a long weekend of The Free Stuff.
I haven’t popped in the things like, lowers stress, lessens the chance of prostate for your partner (if he happens to be male), lessens your chance of heart attack, boosts your immune system and so on. Frankly if I haven’t convinced you to go and grab your partner, land them with that kiss. followed by a neck nuzzle and a crotch graze* then I dunno.
Positions
These are the easiest positions to hop into if it has been a while. I’d say it’s like riding a bike but it’s actually exactly like riding a person.
Woman on top – Let your stomach wobble, your boobs flap and give your clitoris a bit of attention.
Missionary – I’m not going to lie, this is like the laziest position for a woman I think that has even been invented but it doesn’t have to be boring. It can be great fun. Grab some bum, wrap your legs up in strange places, do some hip grinding. Alternatively, lie there making encouraging noises relishing all the attention you are currently getting. Get some nipples involved. Seriously.
Spooning – Never been a huge fan of this myself but many of my pals say that this is the only thing to consider first thing in the morning. We don’t like morning breath. The great thing about this one, is that it can be all sweet and gentle, and in about two seconds flat turn into a dirty mess. Win. This one is also simple to move into other more interesting positions without really having to ‘disconnect’ yourselves.
So anyway, spend the first weekend of 2015 enjoying some sex – however you like it!
* The act of gentle brushing the crotch of your partner ‘accidentally’ in order to signify you are up for a bit of the sex.
Next Wonderful Weekend post is Clearing the Cupboards (Kitchen).
